I Feel Like A Hawk

Imagine this:

You just left your house to go to school. Backpack, check, phone, check, keys, check. You turn on your music and start jamming away as you drive your many miles to get to school. You’re in a decent headspace knowing you’ve finished your test that was due today and your paper is all set and printed, until you pull into the school realizing you’re about to head into a major war zone.

“Please! Please let there be a space. I can’t risk being late again.”

All you see are cars upon cars filling up the entire commuter parking lot with tons more circling around in hopes to maybe find one empty one. I swear it’s like a bunch of hawks just circling its prey. You drive slow and keep your eyes pealed as the rest of the hawks do the same.

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Your anxiety increases as you see nothing opening up or being available. You circle once more. With luck a spot just opened up. You start to speed up a bit in hopes to get it. All of a sudden, a car coming from the opposite direction spots it too and somehow manages to get there just before you.

AHHHHHHHH!!! NOW WHAT?

This just seems to happen to you no matter what day or time; it’s always a blood bath.

I don’t know about you, but this tends to happen to me almost everyday I go to school. I can hardly ever find parking, and when I do it’s a godsend. But let me tell you, it really grinds my gears.

I shouldn’t have to fight for a spot everyday just to go to school; there should be space for everyone and then more space on top of that space.

At my school faculty and staff say that there’s enough space for all of us. They start by saying that we have 8 parking areas; which of course the biggest one being the dumping grounds for all of the residents’ cars. So even if you did want to park there, you would be parking in the far back. Have fun walking a mile 🙂

They also say to us to get to school early that way most spaces will be available (maybe don’t tell that to everyone next time).

Story of my life.

There just never seems to be enough space to hold all of us and it’s really frustrating, especially when our parking lots are also used for other cars that decide to not park in their designated parking lots. I don’t know how many times I have seen student stickers and faculty stickers on parked cars in the commuter lot; which by the way, can receive tickets for. But then again, just this week I counted at least 5 cop cars in potentially good parking spaces for all of us commuters too.

I just don’t get it. There are so many other lots they could take, why ours? We barely have enough space as it is.

Like I’ve said in past posts, we just don’t get the recognition we deserve. I think people just assume that we won’t mind that our spots are taken for their convenience when that is really the biggest thing a commuter can ask for; a parking space.

All I ask is for more space and to actually care about your commuters. It sucks when a major commuter parking lot is covered in snow because that was the only lot the school let any faculty or staff park in so the rest of the lovely lots could be plowed to perfection. Couldn’t they just keep one of the million faculty lots open for them? Did they really have to use our lot, because now after driving in the elements and risking our lives to get to school we now can find no places to park because they’re all filled with snow drifts and the school just didn’t have time to plow it; whoops, sorry. It’s not like we can park in the faculty/staff or resident parking lots either, even though it should be when you can’t find a space.

The grass patch of fury.

Everyday I see empty faculty lots staring me in the face along with a big open field just waiting in my opinion to become a parking lot. I get it nature is important, but getting to the class I paid for is too. Sometimes I wish we could do something about that, because an extended parking lot in my opinion would be very helpful.

Well… maybe there is something we can do about it.

Like I’ve said in a past post, Commuter Services is a great place to talk about your concerns about anything commuter-related. So if there really is a problem at your school about parking, like mine, bring it up because maybe a change will happen. Maybe you could get another parking lot or having a better way of handling the wrong groups of people that park in your parking lot.

If we continue to complain about parking and do nothing about it then nothing will change because to everyone else nothing seems to be wrong. Take action.

To all of you parking lot survivors out there, I understand your pain and I wish you luck at your next battle. As to all you residents, faculty, staff, and random visitors out there, GET OUT OF OUR PARKING LOT!! Thank you 🙂

Can You Hear Me?

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Being a commuter can pose many different challenges. Two of them is being seen and heard. Sometimes when you are not a part of the majority it can be hard to feel like you are getting the recognition you deserve or an outlet to express your feelings.

“Can I get an Amen up in here!”-RuPaul

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For example, even if there are plenty of activities and clubs for everyone to participate in, it can be hard for some commuters to feel like they belong. In my personal experience, I find most activities to be late at night. By then I’m already home and don’t feel the need to go back out, drive to school, and hope I know someone there that I can hang out with at that given event. It’s just not worth it to me which can be frustrating. When do they ever consider the commuters, besides the fact that these events are open to all?

But that’s just the tip of the iceberg. There are plenty of concerns that we as commuters want to speak about because changes or things that happen on campus can affect us too. But how can we? Where do we go to express our concerns, feelings, or maybe a new club idea?

Many campuses have what is called Commuter Services. Luckily for me my campus has one. This is where commuters are the priority; where questions and concerns about commuting, commuter life or just college in general are heard and taken into account.

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Happy Dance!

This is the group of people that try to put our best interests first. They are the ones that want to make our college experience great! They realize commuting can be a struggle not only in the social aspect for example, but getting our voices heard too.

At my school, Commuter Services tends to do a lot of activities such a free meals or fun little events. Just last week, there was a Valentine’s Day Candy event and today we could get a free meal where we could socialize with other commuters. There are even workshops to help us thrive in college, such as meal prepping or eating on a budget. All of these events are also great opportunities to express your concerns or questions.

Another great tool that I recently saw implemented was the use of a commuter survey. This allowed commuters to not only get a chance to win some school cash (HOLD UP! Cash! SIGN ME UP!) but also have their voices heard. No one can really help you unless you speak up. And as being a minority group in a school setting, this is a great way to make changes that we need. This is our stage to finally voice our opinions. This is where you can hear me!

So to all of you who feel like no one cares about us, that no one has our best interest, that no one wants to hear what we have to say, maybe look into your school directory and find Commuter Services. Talk to them, get to know them, and express your concerns. This may be a great opportunity to tell them ideas for making a college commuter experience worth wile. And if you’re not sure what needs to be done, but feel like you need some changes, maybe ask them about creating a survey. Get the help from your fellow commuters to voice their opinions and concerns. There are plenty of surveys out there that can help hone down what should be taken care of to make a college commuter experience the best it can be. And if there isn’t a survey that fits your school best, you can always create one. Surveymonkey.com is a great place to create a survey that fits your needs.

I know feeling left out or not being heard can be a struggle, but maybe you’re not as alone as you think you are. Maybe all you need to do is a bit of searching and you will find the community and platform that you were meant to be a part of all this time. Don’t be shy, go out there and get what you deserve.

On a lighter note please enjoy this #relatable #me #collegelife post! 🙂

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